Male Initiation: Rites of Passage and Why Males Need One

2025-08-20T21:40:30+00:00

 A letter to my almost 16-year-old son for him to open as he goes on a 9-day adventure with Outward Bound in the Pisgah National Forest in the Linville Gorge area of the Blue Ridge Mountains.First, he did NOT want to go.He wanted to attend a basketball camp or perhaps, on the off chance I had [...]

Male Initiation: Rites of Passage and Why Males Need One2025-08-20T21:40:30+00:00

Back Home Again

2025-07-16T13:18:40+00:00

Dear Mom,   Here is a snapshot of just some of the memorable moments and events I appreciate so much sharing with you throughout our time as mother and daughter this Mother’s Day 2018.   I know I share many of these with my 6 siblings. And as I ripen as a mother, too, with [...]

Back Home Again2025-07-16T13:18:40+00:00

I Miss the Days

2025-07-16T13:18:42+00:00

The Ugly Truth About Middle School Today I miss the days when everything I said didn’t have to be classified as sexual or inappropriate. I miss the days when I could say, “That was hard!” and not have some ignorant kid yell, “That’s what she said!” I miss the days when someone said, “I’m coming!” [...]

I Miss the Days2025-07-16T13:18:42+00:00

Holding Court: We Need More Men Like Coach Nichols!

2025-07-16T13:18:44+00:00

Holding Court: We Need More Men Like Coach Nichols! Tonight I went to my son’s spring basketball banquet. It was mostly what you’d expect from a high school event like this. Perfunctory speeches from coaches who are mostly reluctant public speakers, awkward teen-age boys wearing the same ties they’ve worn to each game day carefully [...]

Holding Court: We Need More Men Like Coach Nichols!2025-07-16T13:18:44+00:00
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